Meditations on Sexuality, Part I

“Wake up, it’s 2000! The new millennium won’t be about sexual labels, it will be about sexual expression. It won’t matter if you’re sleeping with men or women. It will be about sleeping with individuals.”

Samantha Jones

Preach, sister! Sexuality is fluid. I was discussing sexual labels with a friend who questioned my self-given label of gay. “I thought you were also attracted to women?” he asked. While I have been attracted to women, I’m also attracted to men. Does that make me bisexual? Perhaps. Does it make me straight? Sure. Am I gay? Totally! To oversimplify it, I identify as gay because I am primarily attracted to men. I guess you can say I’m homoflexible. All these labels, all these people, and so little time to dive into all of it. Let’s just enjoy each others’ company – man, woman, gay, straight, bisexual – we’re all sexy, sexual individuals.

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